How to Massively Grow Your Business with Little or No Rejection – Emily Muia

How to Massively Grow Your Business with Little or No Rejection

If you’re like me, you want to STOP approaching friends, family, strangers on the street (let's face it - everyone!), or people at parties about your business.

I mean, do people ever really say “yes?”  All I heard was “no,” “no thank you,” and “I’m not interested.”  (Ok…and plenty of not so polite ways of saying no).

No business owner can avoid rejection.  It is inevitable…in all its ugly forms.  At first it may not seem so bad but eventually you start to doubt yourself, what you’re doing and why you’re doing it.

“Can I really DO this?” you may ask yourself in your head.

You start to give up on your “why.”  Your dreams seem out of reach.

Sound familiar?

This sheer amount of rejection has a big effect on your mindset.  In fact, it’s one of the top reasons people quit. So what do we do?

Well, here’s one way to deal with it….
Reduce the amount of exposure you have to people who are NOT interested in your business.

That includes no longer being in “prospecting mode” every time you’re surrounded by people.

Doesn’t that sound refreshing?

I’m going to show you how you can grow your business with little or no rejection using three strategies.  Don’t think it’s possible?  I didn’t either but hear me out.

Target Your Ideal Prospect

While it’s important to know what to say, when to say it and how to say it while presenting your business to others; it’s most important to know and understand WHO you’re talking to.

Knowing and having a deep understanding for WHO you want to talk to should be your first objective. 

Inviting people to take a look at what you’re doing becomes a whole lot easier when you’re talking to your ideal prospect. 

When the WHO is met, the what to say, when to say it and how to say it comes so much easier because there’s much less natural resistance.

This is just one of the things I have learned using something called Attraction Marketing. Snag your copy here.

So now I’m sure you’re asking - how do I decide who my ideal prospect is?

  1. Make a list of what struggles a prospect (and customer) would have that you can solve. Make the list extensive.
  2. Make a list of what desires a prospect (and customer) would have that you could provide. In other words, what outcomes are they looking for?
  3. Make a list of key words and language they may use that is unique to your products, their pains and their desires.

Study this list and use it when talking to people.

Ask questions! Find out if someone is your ideal prospect by asking them all kinds of questions.  Ask questions around the struggles and outcomes you’ve identified above; also using the language you’ve identified.

This will allow you to decide whether it’s worth the energy to tell them about your opportunity or products.

And when you tell them about your opportunity and products, you can phrase it all about how you can HELP them. It’s so much easier because you’re aware of what their pains and desires are.


Attract People to YOU

Now that you know who your ideal prospect is, you can draw those prospects to you without having to go out and find them.

People start asking YOU about what you're doing.  How’s that for drastically reducing rejection?

Using this strategy, you might end up rejecting THEM!  Say what?

Now I know what you’re thinking, “this sounds too good to be true.”  That’s what I thought at first too.  But it’s true – I have people reaching out to me. 

Part of this process is to build a following on an email list and on social media – and no joke – people will start coming to YOU asking what you’re doing. It’s crazy – I know!  But it works! 

A System for Turning Your Prospects into Recruits and Customers

Okay, here's the big one.  

This last strategy can virtually end rejection and still massively grow your business.  You need to set up a predictable system for turning these ideal prospects into recruits and customers.

By using a proven system that helps you find and filter your prospects, you eliminate non-qualified prospects without even having talked with them!

You end up only talking one-on-one with prospects who are already interested in what you have to offer.  What?!  A dream, right?

Building such a system on your own with no expertise is daunting.  But lucky for you, I have a suggestion.  Here’s a proven system that you can tap into.

The beauty of a system is that you can automate the whole thing.

Automation makes building your business very predictable; it allows you to gain leads and prospects while you’re out living your life.  The system keeps your "prospecting and recruiting machine" in motion.

And that's worth its weight in gold, if you ask me.

You'll especially appreciate it if you’ve spent much of your business building making a whole bunch of calls, appointments and cold prospecting yourself.

Guess what?  You’ll NEVER have to do that again.  Yay!  It’s an unbelievable feeling to be building your business AT HOME, with an automated system and only talking to people who already have an interest in what you’re doing.

The best part is that you can live your life without hunting down your next prey…I mean prospect…everywhere you go.

How to get started...

The concept that pulls this all together is Attraction Marketing. 

If you are ready to move forward with building your business using these strategies, I’d like to invite you to sign up for my FREE 10-Day Online Recruiting Bootcamp.

In the boot camp, you’ll gain the knowledge to create an automated selling and prospecting system to attract highly-interested prospects to your product or opportunity using the internet.

I dare you to get on board and practically eliminate all rejection!  Don’t get left out in the rain like my little man.  The grass is definitely greener over here.

Click here, or below, to start learning how you can apply these strategies to your business today!

If you’ve found value in this blog today, please comment – I’d love read your comments.  Also feel free to share this with your friends, colleagues and teams.


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Emily Muia

I am a business owner, a "work from home" mom, a wife and a loyal friend. My passion is to remind others that we are never too old to dream and it's never too late to dream big. I want to help people create the life they've always wanted through hard work and dedication to their business.

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Carrie - October 1, 2017 Reply


As an individual who has repped for several direct sales companies, YES! Your advice sounds much like the social marketing strategy I am following now. Having people ask ME instead of me asking THEM is AWESOME!

Sharron - October 1, 2017 Reply

Thanks for those strategies for building a business. Remembering to market the problem solved for the customer is a key to attracting the right prospect to your business.

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    Emily Muia - October 1, 2017 Reply

    Love hearing you understood the message perfectly! Thank you for the comment Sharon.

Debbie - October 1, 2017 Reply

Great info Emily! And I love your philosophy–no, you’re “…never too old to dream.”

Paul Taubman - October 1, 2017 Reply

Life is much easier when clients come to you vs. you chasing them. Good marketing is not only about attracting your ideal client, it is also about repelling something that is NOT your ideal client.

Sometimes it can feel odd turning away potential business, and in many cases, you may be better off.

Thanks for sharing.

    Emily Muia - October 2, 2017 Reply

    Exactly Paul! That’s why I mention, you might have to reject some people who come to you because they may not be the right fit. Thanks for the comment!

Michelle - October 1, 2017 Reply

This sounds really interesting and like an easy to follow process. I am interested in learning more in the boot camp mentioned in the blog.

    Emily Muia - October 2, 2017 Reply

    I’m so glad you found it helpful! Thank you for the comment Michelle!

Catherine - October 1, 2017 Reply

Thanks Emily. I love the list of 3 things to do. It is laid out in an easier way than most coached explain it.

    Emily Muia - October 2, 2017 Reply

    I’m a process person so I like to lay it out in steps. It’s easier to wrap your head around it then. Thank you so much for the comment Catherine!

The Visibility Whiz - October 2, 2017 Reply

Great Post! I love attraction marketing <3 When you are only looking for your ideal clients, it takes a lot of pressure off of you. Your ideal clients are out there ready and eager to buy your products and services, and they will fall in love with you.

One way that I always look at handling rejection, is I'm just a hostess at a party, offering a cookie. It doesn't matter if they take it or not. The only reason one feels rejected is that they are putting a lot of stake in that one contact or that one client. It's not the end of the world. Find those who want your cookies and watch your business soar!

    Emily Muia - October 2, 2017 Reply

    I LOVE that analogy! That is exactly how I feel about it too. And when the people around you don’t feel pressure, they’re more likely to engage with you. Cheers! Thanks for the comment.

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